Monday, March 14
i remember a tag by moniza not too long ago. "why do you sound so different on the internet and in real life?" or something to that effect.
was talking to priyanka just now:.:: Ed ::. [100yrs] the district sleeps alone tonight ; -> cfc-ed.BLOGSPOT.com <- says: contrary to everything you guys see, i take everything seriously.
[mE`]-surleysos pls deLETE my olD accoUnT! says: y is that ppl r never wat they seem?
my answer to that would be society. it is just simply the way society is made. the way we humans are. it is true, that life would be so much easier if everyone was truthful and everyone was what they appeared to be. there are many reasons why people are not truthful and i shall not go there.
we behave differently in different situations or with different people don't we? don't kid yourself. none of us are saints.
narrow your focus down to you and your best friend. chances are, he/she behaves without restraints around you, and is totally truthful. that's why ure best friends rite? when he/she is like that around you the tendency is for you to behave almost totally truthfully around him/her too.
widen that scope to encompass everyone in your society. not everyone behaves truthfully. thus you don't. you are more truthful towards the people whom are more truthful and with whom you are more comfortable with, and less so for others. logical isn't it?
it's impossible to put a value on who is responsible for this phenomena. it's "just like that".
answering moniza's qn belatedly: different situation, different behaviour. my blog is totally truthful to me. it is a great listener. thus i tend to be more truthful with it. tho not totally, coz i gotta filter out what i don't want some people to read. see?